Hello, my name is Debora. I have just been through a very difficult divorce. I discovered that my husband was cheating on me with my best friend. Even though I had evidence of the affair, my husband denied that he had been behaving unreasonably and would not agree to a divorce. This meant that we had to go to court. I was really worried about going to court, but my legal team were very good. They explained every step of the process and reassured me that they would do their best. Despite my husband's attempts to make the divorce difficult, I am now free of him and have custody of our child. I started this blog to help other people who may find themselves in a similar situation.